What actually happens during the time with Clutter Free?
Although initially, I was excited about the idea of organizing and decluttering my hard to organize places, you know the ones. You take everything out and then neatly put it back only to be in the same place after not a lot of time. Cary arrived and she was so kind and non-judgemental. She asked me questions, listened and then gave me some ideas to consider.
During the consultation, I opened my kitchen cabinet and said: “I need help with this.” I have bowls that I love but they don’t stack with the others. Let me show you one of my favorites.
Me: (proudly showing her my robin’s egg blue bowl) My long-time friend who lives in Durham, NC gave this to me because she knows me, really knows me. I love it so much. Do I have to get rid of it??
Cary: No! Why would you get rid of it? It means so much to you.
Me: It is hard to store with my other bowls.
Cary: Would you consider keeping it out on your counter and putting seasonal fruit in it?
Me: Um….I like cold fruit in the fridge and to be honest I can’t picture doing that.
Cary: Let’s keep thinking. Your beautiful bowl needs a place for you to enjoy it.
A couple of days later, I took the bowl out and placed it on my counter and put our apples in it. I looked and gave it some time in its new place. My husband and son noticed and were thrilled. “Now, we’ll eat more apples!” Guess what? We do eat more apples. The bowl reminds me that I am known and thought of by someone I love.
It was a very simple change. I consider myself a creative problem solver, but it never occurred to me to do this. Having Cary, from Clutter Free, come in with new eyes and a fresh perspective helped me see the possibilities.